What to expect
In romantic relationships, the traits that define the identity of two or more partners interact at various levels. Thus, different cultural traits, habits and mental patterns derived from the family of origin and life experiences are combined. Finally, mutual expectations, whether declared or implied, give meaning and motivation to the relationship, from daily living to collaboration on life projects. This relationship is dynamic, given that, through the years and life, people change in all aspects mentioned above. The partners must work out, actively or passively, an ongoing balance that life experiences can sometimes challenge. For example, a challenging period at work, moving to another city, organising a wedding, pregnancy, illness, the education of children, the need for an additional partner, or simply renovating the house can all undermine moods and compromise communication. As a result, expectations and needs change, perhaps only for one of the partners. The balance that once was solid is now in question. Seemingly simple events can trigger violent contrasts and create a daily routine of conflict, anger, anguish, tension, boredom, depression and guilt to the point of resignation or indifference. It seems like a partner no longer appreciates the other. It is like living with a stranger who was previously hilarious, funny, and caring, someone to make plans with, but now it is impossible to understand anymore. In some cases, the couple succeeds in creating a new balance. However, such a crisis may last longer in other cases because nobody can make decisive decisions. Eventually, the result is to separate. It is impossible to indicate a formula that can be adapted to everyone. However, therapy can help in the following examples: Clarifying which aspects of the re